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Chapter 17: The happy man ↵ Happiness, as is

evident, depends partly upon external

circumstances and partly upon oneself. We have

been concerned in this volume with the part which

depends upon oneself, and we have been led to the

view that so far as this part is concerned the

recipe for happiness is a very simple one. It is

thought by many, among whom I think we must

include Mr. Krutch, whom we considered in an

earlier chapter, that happiness is impossible

without a creed of a more or less religious kind.

It is thought by many who are themselves unhappy

that their sorrows have complicated and highly

intellectualised sources. I do not believe that

such things are genuine causes of either

happiness or unhappiness; I think they are only

symptoms. The man who is unhappy will, as a rule,

adopt an unhappy creed, while the man who is

happy will adopt a happy creed; each may

attribute his happiness or unhappiness to his

beliefs, while the real causation is the other

way round. Certain things are indispensable to

the happiness of most men, but these are simple

things: food and shelter, health, love,

successful work and the respect of one's own

herd. To some people parenthood also is

essential. Where these things are lacking; only

the exceptional man can achieve happiness, but

where they are enjoyed, or can be obtained by

well-directed effort, the man who is still

unhappy is suffering from some psychological

maladjustment which, if it is very grave, may

need the services of a psychiatrist, but can in

ordinary cases be cured by the patient himself,

provided he sets about the matter in the right

way. Where outward circumstances are not

definitely unfortunate, a man should be able to

achieve happiness, provided that his passions and

interests are directed outward, not inward. It

should be our endeavour therefore, both in

education and in attempts to adjust ourselves to

the world, to aim at avoiding self-centred

passions and at acquiring those affections and

those interests which will prevent our thoughts

from dwelling perpetually upon ourselves. It is

not the nature of most men to be happy in a

prison, and the passions which shut us up in

ourselves constitute one of the worst kinds of

prisons. Among such passions some of the

commonest are fear, envy, the sense of sin,

self-pity and self-admiration. In all these our

desires are centred upon ourselves: there is no

genuine interest in the outer world, but only a

concern lest it should in some way injure us or

fail to feed our ego. Fear is the principal

reason why men are so unwilling to admit facts

and so anxious to wrap themselves round in a warm

garment of myth. But the thorns tear the warm

garment and the cold blasts penetrate through the

rents, and the man who has become accustomed to

its warmth suffers far more from these blasts

than a man who has hardened himself to them from

the first. Moreover, those who deceive themselves

generally know at bottom that they are doing so,

and live in a state of apprehension lest some

untoward event should force unwelcome

realisations upon them. ↵ One of the great

drawbacks to self-centred passions is that they

afford so little variety in life. The man who

loves only himself cannot, it is true, be accused

of promiscuity in his affections, but he is bound

in the end to suffer intolerable boredom from the

invariable sameness of the object of his

devotion. The man who suffers from a sense of sin

is suffering from a particular kind of self-love.

In all this vast universe the thing that appears

to him of most importance is that he himself

should be virtuous. It is a grave defect in

certain forms of traditional religion that they

have encouraged this particular kind of

self-absorption. ↵ The happy man is the man who

lives objectively, who has free affections and

wide interests, who secures his happiness through

these interests and affections and through the

fact that they, in turn, make him an object of

interest and affection to many others. To be the

recipient of affection is a potent cause of

happiness, but the man who demands affection is

not the man upon whom it is bestowed. The man who

receives affection is, speaking broadly, the man

who gives it. But it is useless to attempt to

give it as a calculation, in the way in which one

might lend money at interest, for a calculated

affection is not genuine and is not felt to be so

by the recipient. ↵ What then can a man do who

is unhappy because he is encased in self? So long

as he continues to think about the causes of his

unhappiness, he continues to be self-centred and

therefore does not get outside the vicious

circle; if he is to get outside it, it must be by

genuine interests, not by simulated interests

adopted merely as a medicine. Although this

difficulty is real, there is nevertheless much

that he can do if he has rightly diagnosed his

trouble. If, for example, his trouble is due to a

sense of sin, conscious or unconscious, he can

first persuade his conscious mind that he has no

reason to feel sinful, and then proceed, by the

kind of technique that we have considered in

earlier chapters, to plant this rational

conviction in his unconscious mind, concerning

himself meanwhile with some more or less neutral

activity. If he succeeds in dispelling the sense

of sin, it is probable that genuinely objective

interests will arise spontaneously. If his

trouble is self-pity, he can deal with it in the

same manner after first persuading himself that

there is nothing extraordinarily unfortunate in

his circumstances. If fear is his trouble, let

him practise exercises designed to give courage.

Courage in war has been recognised from time

immemorial as an important virtue, and a great

part of the training of boys and young men has

been devoted to producing a type of character

capable of fearlessness in battle. But moral

courage and intellectual courage have been much

less studied; they also, however, have their

technique. Admit to yourself every day at least

one painful truth; you will find this quite as

useful as the Boy Scout's daily kind action.

Teach yourself to feel that life would still be

worth living even if you were not, as of course

you are, immeasurably superior to all your

friends in virtue and intelligence. Exercises of

this sort prolonged through several years will at

last enable you to admit facts without flinching,

and will, in so doing, free you from the empire

of fear over a very large field. ↵ What the

objective interests are to be that will arise in

you when you have overcome the disease of

self-absorption must be left to the spontaneous

workings of your nature and of external

circumstances. Do not say to yourself in advance,

'I should be happy if I could become absorbed in

stamp-collecting' and thereupon set to work to

collect stamps, for it may well happen that you

will fail altogether to find stamp collecting

interesting. Only what genuinely interests you

can be of any use to you, but you may be pretty

sure that genuine objective interests will grow

up as soon as you have learnt not to be immersed

in self. ↵ The happy life is to an extraordinary

extent the same as the good life. Professional

moralists have made too much of self-denial, and

in so doing have put the emphasis in the wrong

place. Conscious self-denial leaves a man

self-absorbed and vividly aware of what he has

sacrificed; in consequence it fails often of its

immediate object and almost always of its

ultimate purpose. What is needed is not

self-denial, but that kind of direction of

interest outward which will lead spontaneously

and naturally to the same acts that a person

absorbed in the pursuit of his own virtue could

only perform by means of conscious self-denial. I

have written in this book as a hedonist, that is

to say, as one who regards happiness as the good,

but the acts to be recommended from the point of

view of the hedonist are on the whole the same as

those to be recommended by the sane moralist. The

moralist, however, is too apt, though this is

not, of course, universally true, to stress the

act rather than the state of mind. The effects of

an act upon the agent will be widely different,

according to his state of mind at the moment. If

you see a child drowning and save it as the

result of a direct impulse to bring help, you

will emerge none the worse morally. If, on the

other hand, you say to yourself,'It is the part

of virtue to succour the helpless, and I wish to

be a virtuous man, therefore I must save this

child', you will be an even worse man afterwards

than you were before. What applies in this

extreme case applies in many other instances that

are less obvious. ↵ There is another difference,

somewhat more subtle, between the attitude

towards life that I have been recommending and

that which is recommended by the traditional

moralists. The traditional moralist, for example,

will say that love should be unselfish. In a

certain sense he is right, that is to say, it

should not be selfish beyond a point, but it

should undoubtedly be of such a nature that one's

own happiness is bound up in its success. If a

man were to invite a lady to marry him on the

ground that he ardently desired her happiness and

at the same time considered that she would afford

him ideal opportunities of self-abnegation, I

think it may be doubted whether she would be

altogether pleased. Undoubtedly we should desire

the happiness of those whom we love, but not as

an alternative to our own. In fact the whole

antithesis between self and the rest of the

world, which is implied in the doctrine of

self-denial, disappears as soon as we have any

genuine interest in persons or things outside

ourselves. Through such interests a man comes to

feel himself part of the stream of life, not a

hard separate entity like a billiard-ball, which

can have no relation with other such entities

except that of collision. All unhappiness depends

upon some kind of disintegration or lack of

integration; there is disintegration within the

self through lack of coordination between the

conscious and the unconscious mind; there is lack

of integration between the self and society where

the two are not knit together by the force of

objective interests and affections. The happy man

is the man who does not suffer from either of

these failures of unity, whose personality is

neither divided against itself nor pitted against

the world. Such a man feels himself a citizen of

the universe, enjoying freely the spectacle that

it offers and the joys that it affords,

untroubled by the thought of death because he

feels himself not really separate from those who

will come after him. It is in such profound

instinctive union with the stream of life that

the greatest joy is to be found. ↵


知识点

重点词汇
creed [kri:d] n. 信条,教义 n. (Creed)人名;(英)克里德 {toefl :8002}

immersed [ɪ'mɜ:st] adj. 浸入的;专注的 v. 浸(immerse的过去式和过去分词);沉湎于 { :8097}

envy [ˈenvi] n. 嫉妒,妒忌;羡慕 vt. 嫉妒,妒忌;羡慕 vi. 感到妒忌;显示出妒忌 {gk cet4 cet6 ky ielts :8468}

intolerable [ɪnˈtɒlərəbl] adj. 无法忍受的;难耐的 { :8495}

vividly ['vɪvɪdlɪ] adv. 生动地;强烈地 {cet6 :8508}

dispelling [dɪˈspelɪŋ] v. 驱散,赶跑( dispel的现在分词 ) { :8525}

indispensable [ˌɪndɪˈspensəbl] n. 不可缺少之物;必不可少的人 adj. 不可缺少的;绝对必要的;责无旁贷的 {cet4 cet6 ky toefl ielts :8544}

outward [ˈaʊtwəd] adj. 向外的;外面的;公开的;外服的;肉体的 adv. 向外(等于outwards);在外;显而易见地 n. 外表;外面;物质世界 {gk cet4 cet6 ky toefl :8599}

unwelcome [ʌnˈwelkəm] n. 冷淡 adj. 不受欢迎的;讨厌的;不被接受的 vt. 冷淡地对待 { :8638}

instinctive [ɪnˈstɪŋktɪv] adj. 本能的;直觉的;天生的 {toefl gre :8715}

lest [lest] conj. 唯恐,以免;担心 {cet4 cet6 ky :8827}

spontaneously [spɒn'teɪnɪəslɪ] adv. 自发地;自然地;不由自主地 {toefl :8862}

bestowed [biˈstəud] vt. 使用;授予;放置;留宿 { :9425}

sane [seɪn] adj. 健全的;理智的;[临床] 神志正常的 n. (Sane)人名;(日)实(姓);(日)实(名);(芬、塞、冈、几比、塞内)萨内 {ky toefl gre :9556}

thorns [θɔ:nz] n. [植] 刺,刺尖(thorn的复数形式);[植] 荆棘 { :9881}

flinching [flɪntʃɪŋ] v. (因危险和痛苦)退缩,畏惧( flinch的现在分词 ) { :9904}

objectively [əb'dʒektɪvlɪ] adv. 客观地 { :11272}

disintegration [dɪsˌɪntɪ'ɡreɪʃn] n. 瓦解,崩溃;分解 { :11449}

unhappiness [ʌn'hæpɪnəs] n. 苦恼;忧愁 { :11535}

virtuous [ˈvɜ:tʃuəs] adj. 善良的;有道德的;贞洁的;正直的;有效力的 {toefl ielts gre :12389}

perpetually [pə'petʃʊəlɪ] adv. 永恒地,持久地 { :13089}

encased [enˈkeɪst] adj. 包装的;被包住的 v. 盖住;包起;装箱(encase的过去分词) { :13206}

causation [kɔ:ˈzeɪʃn] n. 原因;因果关系;出现 { :13210}

sinful [ˈsɪnfl] adj. 有罪的 { :13589}

parenthood [ˈpeərənthʊd] n. 亲子关系;父母身份 { :14467}

antithesis [ænˈtɪθəsɪs] n. 对立面;对照;对仗 {gre :15063}


难点词汇
sameness [ˈseɪmnəs] n. 相同;千篇一律;单调 { :17292}

untoward [ˌʌntəˈwɔ:d] adj. 不幸的;麻烦的;倔强的;困难的 {gre :18475}

immeasurably [ɪ'meʒərəblɪ] adv. 无限地;广大无边地;不能测量地 { :18619}

promiscuity [ˌprɒmɪs'kju:ətɪ] n. 乱交;混乱 { :18977}

untroubled [ʌn'trʌbld] adj. 无烦恼的;未被扰乱的;平静的 { :19613}

invariable [ɪnˈveəriəbl] n. 常数;不变的东西 adj. 不变的;常数的 {ky toefl :20215}

immemorial [ˌɪməˈmɔ:riəl] adj. 远古的,古老的;无法追忆的 {gre :20485}

unselfish [ʌnˈselfɪʃ] adj. 无私的,慷慨的 {toefl :20739}

thereupon [ˌðeərəˈpɒn] adv. 于是;随即;关于那,在其上 { :21070}

moralist [ˈmɒrəlɪst] n. 道德家;伦理学者 { :21627}

moralists [ˈmɔ:rəlɪsts] n. 道德家,道德主义者,说教者( moralist的名词复数 ) { :21627}

ardently ['ɑ:dntlɪ] adv. 热烈地;热心地 { :22918}

maladjustment [ˌmælə'dʒʌstmənt] n. 失调,不适应 { :26141}

fearlessness ['fɪələsnəs] n. 无畏;勇敢 { :26602}

hedonist [ˈhi:dənɪst] n. 快乐主义者;享乐主义者 adj. 享乐主义者的 {gre :32612}

succour [ˈsʌkə(r)] n. 救援物品 vt. 救助 { :32973}


生僻词
billiard-ball [ ] [网络] 撞球;台球图片;台球

commonest [ ] adj. 普通的( common的最高级 ); 通俗的; [数学]公共的; 公有的

intellectualised [ ] (intellectualise 的过去分词) v.<主英>=intellectualize

Krutch [ˈkru:tʃ] n. (姓氏) 克鲁奇

self-abnegation [ˌselfˌæbnɪ'geɪʃən] n. 自我牺牲;克己;自制

self-absorbed [ˈselfəbˈsɔ:bd] adj. 自私的;专心于自己的事务或利益的;固执己见 {gre :0}

self-absorption [ˈselfəbˈsɔ:pʃən] n. 自吸收;聚精会神;热衷;专心致致

self-admiration ['selfædmə'reɪʃən] n. 自赏,自负; 自我欣赏

self-centred [ˈselfˈsentəd] adj. 自我中心的;自私自利的

self-denial [ˌselfdɪˈnaɪəl] n. 自我否定;克己;忘我

self-love [ˈselfˈlʌv] n. 自爱;自恋;利己主义

self-pity [ˈselfˈpɪti:] n. 自怜;自哀

well-directed ['wɛldaɪ'rɛktɪd] adj. 精心瞄准、引导的; 精心指引、领导或辅导的


词组
absorb in [ ] un. 专心于 [网络] 全神贯注于;吸引

accustom to [ ] un. 习惯于 [网络] 使习惯;使习惯于;习惯于某事

cold blast [ ] un. 鼓冷风;冷鼓风 [网络] 寒风

collect stamp [ ] 集邮

deceive themselves [ ] vi.误解,想错

devote to [diˈvəut tu:] v. 把…贡献给 [网络] 致力于;献身于;把……献给

direct impulse [ ] 正向脉冲

drawback to [ ] un. 对于…的缺点 [网络] 做…的不利条件

encase in [ ] 围住,包起;把…装在箱(或盒、套、袋、壳等)内

in the pursuit of [ ] [网络] 追求;奉行

indispensable to [ˌɪndisˈpensəbl tu:] [网络] 不可缺少的;不可或缺;必不可少的

it is probable that [ ] [网络] 也许;很有可能;句型

knit together [ ] [网络] 把…联系在一起;汇集;爱心互相联络

lack of coordination [læk ʌv koˌɔrdn:ˈeʃən] [网络] 身体缺乏协调;缺乏协调的行动;协同作用缺乏

lend money [lend ˈmʌni] [网络] 借钱;借出;借钱给别人

lend money at interest [ ] na. 取息贷款 [网络] 有息贷款

outer world [ ] [网络] 外敌世界;外部世界;外在世界

penetrate through [ ] v. 穿过;透过 [网络] 穿透

pit against [ ] v. 敌对 [网络] 使竞争;使与…相斗;使与…对抗

separate entity [ ] [网络] 单独实体;独立体;独立实体

stamp collecting [ ] n. 集邮 [网络] 邮票收集;集邮类;关于集邮的英语作文

superior to [sjuˈpiəriə tu:] adj. 胜过;优于 [网络] 比…好;级别高于;比…高级

the outer world [ ] na. 外部世界;世间 [网络] 处部世界

the unconscious [ ] [网络] 无意识;潜意识;下意识

unconscious mind [ʌnˈkɔnʃəs maind] [网络] 潜意识;无意识;无意识心理

unwilling to [ ] [网络] 不愿意;不情愿的

upon oneself [ ] [网络] 承担责任



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